I understand this now that you wrote the words. There is an important person in my life who has suggested a few times that an area of my suffering can be lifted through repentance of sin. It’s been said in a roundabout way but it has brought shame every time, in an area where shame used to run rampant without anyone encouraging it, in an area where I have already had deep repentance. (Don’t get me wrong — I know there is a time and place for correction and wisdom like this.) I didn’t realize how it has made me back up a bit from this person and put up a guard, without even realizing. I do remind myself that people mostly have good intentions, I know this is the case here. I have been given the grace to forgive this person, a few times, and guard my heart from offense as well. I know what it’s like to be in a dark place and how the love and encouragement from someone can change your whole day. It’s life-giving!! Our words bring life or death!
I feel like I just got an education that will help me going forward in relationship with people in our ministry and in my personal life. Thank you Kristin. Looking forward to the rest of the series.
Wow yes. I have a dear friend who doesn’t realize that I take to heart all her harsh public comments. It doesn’t matter that she reserves private compassion for me and my daughters. I know ultimately that the public “version” is the true one and I’m getting false sympathy. It’s a tremendous loss.
I will always be in awe of the gift of writing God gave you. I am so blessed to read any word you let the world read.
Thank you for this post!
Thank you. 🥹
What an amazing post. My experiences as a Christian with over 40 years in the Church could have had me write every word of this. Thank you!
So sorry you can relate!
I understand this now that you wrote the words. There is an important person in my life who has suggested a few times that an area of my suffering can be lifted through repentance of sin. It’s been said in a roundabout way but it has brought shame every time, in an area where shame used to run rampant without anyone encouraging it, in an area where I have already had deep repentance. (Don’t get me wrong — I know there is a time and place for correction and wisdom like this.) I didn’t realize how it has made me back up a bit from this person and put up a guard, without even realizing. I do remind myself that people mostly have good intentions, I know this is the case here. I have been given the grace to forgive this person, a few times, and guard my heart from offense as well. I know what it’s like to be in a dark place and how the love and encouragement from someone can change your whole day. It’s life-giving!! Our words bring life or death!
There’s a really tender balance of grace, forgiveness, and boundaries. It’s so tricky to navigate!
You are such a kind, strong, amazing young woman. Grateful for you.
Thank you, friend!
Yes! Every word! Thank you!!!
I feel like I just got an education that will help me going forward in relationship with people in our ministry and in my personal life. Thank you Kristin. Looking forward to the rest of the series.
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Oh my goodness. This is so good. I feel şeen. Thank you. 💛
Wow yes. I have a dear friend who doesn’t realize that I take to heart all her harsh public comments. It doesn’t matter that she reserves private compassion for me and my daughters. I know ultimately that the public “version” is the true one and I’m getting false sympathy. It’s a tremendous loss.
These are my exact feelings, experiences, & thoughts after fighting for my life and being critically ill for four years. Thank you for this. 🙏🏼
Amen amen amen
All of this! Thank you for putting this reality into words.